lita left today

she walked out the door a little while ago, giving the kids lots of cuddles and even me one too.

i was teary, she was dry eyed.

besides what she was to my children, lita gave me freedom, peace of mind, a second opinion, a sounding board, laughter and sanity these past four years. she was an adult to talk with when charles was out of the house and i needed a discussion.

she knows what these past four years have been to me.

and it wasn't always all about me. she became a mother too.  and it was amazing to be part of that experience and time in her life.

i don't mind that i am the only one crying. of course she means more to me than i mean to her. i know we were a job. i am glad that she's on her way to a life where the countdown can begin to having her family with her, so she is looking after her own family instead of someone else's.

i am glad she is gone.

but so is a big piece.

Comments

[Boulder]

Oh dear, I hadn't realized that this was happening now. I mean, I know it was happening, but in my own life's happenings, I hadn't put 2 and 2 together.

I'm sorry that your peace of mind and piece of life is gone, but I hope that while you hold her in your heart and mind's eye you find a sense of fullness with a new soul who will also appreciate the uniqueness of your family and your love.

xoxo

[joeinvegas]

Well, your children are still there. Sorry for the loss of your friend, but she must grow up and move on.

[Trinie]

Oh Tess, I'm so sorry that such a big support in your life has now gone. I will pray that you will get someone who is just as supportive and will also be a really good friend.

[Maureen aka Mo (Grandmother)]

There are tears in my eyes and heart too, Tess, as I write you. Like you, I love Lita and consider her 'family'. I admire your kind attitude to her leaving and moving on into the next phase of her life - but I know how hard that is for you. Much love to you, darling.
M xox

[Dad aka Grandad Blake]

Help may be at hand . Mum has been studying maps of China and taking long distance swimming lessons. She even thinks there are stops along the way where one can get a hot cup of tea.

Chin up Sweetheart.

Love to all....Dad

[SouthernBell]

Ahw, that's sad. How are the kids handling it? Did they love her too?

[lita]

of course you and your family means a lot to me.and yes i did cried.and pls. stop saying you're just a job to me.you know how much i love your family.

[Jill]

((Hugs))

Lita's new life wouldn't have been possible without you supporting her. That, among other things, goes to show how cherished she is. She will love Canada - and if ANYTHING is needed at this end - you know we offered and I mean it....I know people ;) .......she will be ok and so will you.

XOXO

[Auntie Pammie]

All the best to Lita on her new adventure.. I know she will miss you all as much as you will miss her !!