in yesterday's post i didn't mean to give the impression that we are despondent. we are sad, but at the end of the day, this is an inconvenience.
the divorce rate for parents of multiples is incredibly high. while charles and i do have our fair share of spats, we are together. we have the mindset that divorce is not an option. our children are healthy. our children are happy (except when they're not allowed to have chicken nuggets). i am so grateful that that i process quickly, that he forgives readily.
money is just money.
at the end of the day, we have family and friends who support us. we love and we are loved. we have faith. we can wake up and know the sun is shining. and if it is cloudy, we know the sun will shine again.
it's just money.
(not to say i don't wish we had it back).
but it's just money.
One truism I have never forgot is the one adhered to by Baptists of which your mother is one.
Divorce-NEVER
Murder -UMMM
I never want to test that.
Love to all......Dad
Posted by: Dad aka gdad Blake | April 10, 2008 at 11:58 PM
Hmmm, I'd watch out for Dad if I were your mum.
Hope you can make the trip after all.
Posted by: JoeInVegas | April 11, 2008 at 12:06 AM
your dad=sweet.
your blog, your feelings
4thou is a lot of money and to lose it like would make any normal person throw up.
Posted by: Lala | April 11, 2008 at 12:24 AM
your dad=sweet.
your blog, your feelings
4thou is a lot of money and to lose it like would make any normal person throw up.
Posted by: Lala | April 11, 2008 at 12:25 AM
bummer about the tickets... miss you guys lots and lots...maybe you'll get the $$ back but it will only be in the form of tickets to San Antonio and you'll be forced to come visit us for your vacation...its not BC and "cool" cananada... ok so its big time wishful thinking!! more soon xo Lyns
Posted by: lyns | April 11, 2008 at 05:58 AM
Ummmm Divorce is not for all for sure ,, ( I am filing tomorrow ),, you and Charles are the couple I look up to :-)
Something will work out ,, I am sure .
Love Auntie Pammie xoxoo
Posted by: Auntie Pammie | April 11, 2008 at 09:30 AM
You always write with such love... it is an inspiration.
My hubby and i do not "believe" in divorce either although with two under threes that has been tested. I run with the knowledge that financial streess and the children will all sort itself out one way or another...thanks for you honesty
Posted by: Mizasiwa | April 11, 2008 at 05:02 PM